Mary from @thedatingplaybook asks How do we unlock our feminine power.

My answer – Shoes!

As a woman who can’t walk in high heels and yet owns them for ‘special occasions’, I know that the costumes we wear bring out aspects of our personality. I think this understanding comes from my time working in theatre, seeing an ‘ok’ performance turn into life during the dress rehearsal.

If you want to feel more of something, look the part!

I still love warm comfortable clothing, but nothing beats sitting in a pair of high heeled shoes!

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