Why is it we date or meet the same the same kinds of people, or why we have patterns of events that play out in our lives – such as always getting bullied at work, or always being the person that supports the underdog, or always being the person who makes sure the birthday card is signed by everyone, but who never gets a card on their birthday. Or you’re always the person everyone turns to, but when the chips are down for you, no-ones around. They say ‘build boundaries’ and yet if you have tried… they don’t work. ‘Why is it that people push your buttons, step over your boundaries or simply act in a way towards you that shows zero respect. It’s time for the most effective change of your life.